The failure and defeat if treated as a learning process and used as a way of self-improvement and maturity, it is certain that it may lead to only positive results for the athlete’s progress. There are countless times when athletes have been so bitterly disappointed by a bad result that they have reached the point to quit the sport because they feel powerless and helpless to support their talent and all their efforts.Recovering after a painful defeat or after a bad match result is a state called mental resilience in Sports Psychology and it focuses on:
- Being able to overcome difficult/ stressful situations
- Recovering after failures/injuries
- Remaining calm and concentrated with self-confidence.
The athlete must be familiar with the causes that led him to his defeat. This is the only way in order not to repeat the same mistakes and to be able to use the circumstances that led him to the ugly result to his advantage. The attribution of defeat to ‘ bad luck ‘or ‘ bad day ‘ in sports or external factors such as the referee, the weather or Mercury retrograde is way far from rationalization and serious sports practice.
In order to convert defeat into positive feedback for you and use it to your benefit you should follow the advice below:
- Accept the fact that there is no sport without failures and use the defeats as opportunities to learn from them
- Take the responsibility of your mistakes or failures, however, don’t stay tied up in frustration
- Convert the ugly result into a challenge not a threat
- Get feedback at the end of a lost race, find out what went wrong and redefine your objectives the next day
- Stay positive in thinking that you can come back despite any difficulty and keep trying for the best possible result